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Apr. 28, 2018

It’s Arrow’s Birthday!! Having him in my life makes me feel like it is my Birthday everyday. Love  I so love this boy! Today will be a day of treats and a nice relaxing walk around Kingsway.  It will be a hand walk while listening to Barry Manilow, The Eagles or The Capenters.  I’ll let him decide. {#smileys123.tonqueout}

Normally we would go for a ride on his birthday but unfortunately he has had a set back.  Last week I worked him in the Pessoa and then the next day rode him for almost 2 hours.  We trotted a few steps to catch up to Kristen and Annie and the rest was walking.  I just realized I have not talked about them.  At the end of my last post I mentioned the Hunter Derby.  It was sooooo much fun!  I did 2 different classes.  I rode in the Hill Toppers which simulates riding through a Hunting field.  I am probably not wording it right. It is timed. Usually it is teams of 2 or 3 but I was allowed to ride with Kristen and her horse Annie and her friend Brianne and Kristen’s other horse Nike, and another student of Chloe’s, Rachael, and her brand new horse C.J.  I rode Gwendolyn.  We got 5th place!  Then I did the X Rails with Kristen and we got 3rd!  That is where you jump a series of 10 X Rails as a pair in an arena setting trying to reach optimum time.  Kristen came to Kingsway after her horses were evacuated during the San Luis Rey fires.  She liked Kingsway so much she stayed.  Good thing!  I’ve really met the most fascinating people since I became a horse owner at Kingsway. As I am meeting more and more people I am really learning how unique Kingsway is today.  Not many barns left like it in Southern California. Side bar finished. Big Grin  The 2 hour ride was too much for Arrow.  He was very saddle sore afterwards and I did not have any pain killers for him. Sick  He is actually still a little sore so I am going back to just Pessoa work and hand walks for at least 2 weeks.  Debra did his PEMF therapy a little early to help ease his pain.  It’s like trying to find out the right combination or dosage of drugs for people.  I have to figure out what his threshold is.  What amount of rehab and riding is too much and what is too little.  We will figure it out.  I’m sure it will change over time as he ages.  All I know is he was not a very happy horse that day of our long walk.  Ugh! Crying  He has been resting ever since.  Today we did the Pessoa for about 15 minutes and he responded very well so I want to keep this positivity going and not get him worked up again.  I’m working with the Vet and my insurance company to see how many additional shockwave therapy treatments I can do.  I should be able to do 2 as each treatment is $400 and I have $800 left to spend for insurance.  As of now, Shockwave therapy is the ONLY treatment covered.

Arrow was really cute the other day.  It was very quiet as far as people at Kingsway but there was the normal constant bird chirping going on.  It’s like one of those relaxation apps.  I brought Arrow up to groom him.  There is a tree next to where I tie him up.  I don’t know what kind of bird it was but it had a distinctive sound from the other’s and would only chirp for about 30 seconds every 5 minutes or so.  Arrow kept his head down and eyes almost closed most of the time I groomed him but every time the bird would start chirping his head would shoot up, his ears went forward and he would stare at the tree.Wild  As soon as the bird stopped he put his head down.  I have no idea what attracted him to that particular bird since you always hear birds.  Wish he could tell me.Wink

The other day I was walking around with Arrow and someone told me he had beautiful Dapples!  What???  In my head I knew dapples to be on Gray horses and I thought that was just part of their markings.  I took a step back and looked at him in the sunlight and sure enough found he was covered in them.  He has never had dapples since I got him.  So of course I went to my ever so knowledgeable trainer Chloe and said I was going to ask a dumb question.  Can a horse sometimes have dapples and then not have dapples?  She told me this was an indication that I was taking good care of him and he is in good health.  An article I read said that some horses do not have the genes to produce them so some of the healthiest horses will never have dapples.  My dapple lesson was very exciting for me as a newer horse owner.  Sometimes I question whether I am really doing the best I can for him and while there is definitely lots of room for improvement and learning it just confirms that I am on the right track! Thumbs up 



Apr. 5, 2018

Spring is finally here!   I probably do not get as excited as those in areas that actually have seasons.  To me it seems like it has been Spring since the Fall.  I’m thrilled to say that my little Money Pit (Arrow of course! Hehe) has had great improvement since therapy started after his diagnosis.  Chloe rode him for the 1st time since October a few weeks ago.  She said he did better than she expected.  She gave me the ok to ride him lightly.  I rode him twice with her before I attempted to trail ride him on my own.  So far we have gone on 3 rides, 1 with Dutchess, and they made my heart happy! Heart Arrow was such a good boy!  Very relaxed and easy going.  He didn’t spook at all!  He really is becoming a different horse.  My farrier said he is different when getting shod.  His anxiety has gone away.  Debra said she just had the best session with him yet, my Vet that does his chiropractic and his general Vet said his top line is filling out nicely so Yayyyyyyy for Arrow!!! I’m so happy for him and it makes the expense so far a little less painful. Unsure  I’m reaching $7000 and only $2500 has been covered.  I just submitted my last receipt for $1400 for the Shockwave Therapy.  Fingers crossed on this.  I have a high school reunion in Minnesota at the end of the summer so I need my plane ticket $$ back! Thumbs up  I also do not see him not needing his chiropractic or PEMF sessions anytime in the near future and that is not covered.  Ugh.Sad  I never once have questioned whether it’s worth it.  I just need to see him grazing in the pasture as I enter through the gate to Kingsway to know he is worth every penny. Love

Arrow’s new pasture mate ‘Darwin’ has moved in and so far so good!  He is a cutie pie and very friendly! They have a little herd.Wow  Arrow is doing better at not biting Perazzi’s blankets but the problem is not completely gone.  Still hoping!

He has had an amazing amount of visitors too!  I think he really enjoys the attention.Thumbs up   My friend Bobi brought her son Nick and daughter Kenzi and Kenzi’s friend Jocelyn. He met 2 super sweet Japanese exchange students we had for a weekend, Ryusei and Tsubasu.  Joe brought our family friend Keith out when Keith was on a ride along with Joe, to meet Arrow and then Keith’s wife Chris brought her son Shane (pictured, other pics of visitors will be added to the photo section) to meet him and take a Kingsway tour.  This also meant more Arrow time for me! Wink

Arrow will continue to do the Pessoa 2 times a week, chiropractic every 4-6 weeks and PEMF therapy every few weeks.  I don’t think I’ll ride him more than once or twice a week mostly at the walk.  Especially now when I still want Chloe to ride him so she can monitor his progress.

This weekend I am participating in the Hunter Pace which is where teams of 2 or 3 ride a cross country course and jump obstacles.  This is something new for me so not exactly sure what to expect.  I have a jump lesson tomorrow to “tune up”.  Unfortunately part of the course goes through Arrow’s pasture so he will be moved for 3 days and I am not sure where to.  Hopefully he will not have to go in a stall.  He is not a ‘stall’ horse and not really a ‘pen’ horse either.  Thank God it’s only for a few days or I might be a little stressed for him!  I would like to do the course with no jumping on Arrow next year.  We have a goal!!Big Grin

Mar. 3, 2018

It’s been a little bit since I last wrote.  The month of February was pretty routine for Arrow.  I’ve been trying to do his rehab with the Pessoa at least 4 times a week.  Weather sometimes made it only possible to do two or three.  I also take him for 25-30 minute walks around the perimeter of Kingsway.  I found I benefitted from this as well and have lost a few pounds so far.Thumbs up  On the weeks we couldn’t do as much Pessoa training (round pen too wet) I would back him up hills.  This is another exercise to help develop his back.  All of this ground work has actually translated into him using his big boy listening ears better!  He still has not been ridden since his diagnosis.  I’m not in a rush to rehab him and ride as I don’t want to do something too soon that would set him back or cause a really bad experience for him.  Arrow just finished his 3rd round of shock wave therapy and 2nd PEMF session.  Debra set him up on an injury package.  I just submitted my receipts for this so I’m hoping it is covered.  Each session is $85.  I do not know how much each shockwave treatment is because the Vet sends her invoice directly to the insurance company.

Arrow strongly feels his pasture mate Perazzi does not need to wear any blankets or fly masks and continues to try to remove them.  This causes a lot of problems because it results in tears in the blankets and destruction of the masks.  Frustraing for Debra. When Arrow was neighbors with Dylan he would get his masks removed so maybe he thinks this is something horses do for each other.Wink  I got a can of Chew Stop for Debra to spray on the blankets and masks and so far things have been ok.  It is really nasty to taste.Sick

I worried that Arrow living in the cross country field would be an issue for anyone trying to jump their horse in it.  For the most part he has been a good boy except, of course, when I was in there practicing on Gwendolyn for a horse show last weekend at Galway Downs which is across the street from Kingsway.  I know he didn’t mean to do anything that might put me in danger on purpose but he is a silly gelding and likes to stir the pots!  I was having a great lesson and felt I was able to control Gwen’s speed at the canter the best I ever had.  We even successfully jumped over a larger jump then we ever had! Wild The picture is of us going over that jump. I’m a little high on her neck but prior to this particular jump you see here, things had gone well.  After my 3rd jump we decided to do 1 more for good measure and I talked to Chloe about what I needed to do to improve before attempting it.  Gwen’s owner, Mary, was also present at this lesson.  This whole time Arrow and Perazzi were quietly standing under a tree wayyyyyyy  on the other side of the field.  Remember, I said I felt like I had control of her speed.  While talking to Chloe my lovely Arrow had made his way over to Chloe and Mary looking for treats and attention.  I could feel Gwen getting a little excited while looking at him but didn’t think much of it.  My mistake.Blink  A few minutes later Perazzi came over to see what was going on.  Arrow looked at him, both spun around, took off running, bucking, jumping and ran off to the gate on the other side of the field.  Great!  I can now complete my final jump.  What I didn’t know was that Gwendolyn seemed to have the opinion that these geldings could learn a thing or two and needed to see what a retired champion Eventing horse could do! {#smileys123.tonqueout}  I wanted to trot the last jump.  She now wanted to canter.  She also wanted to show the boys how high she could jump.  I was not prepared for the height of that final jump but we did mange it.  I was off balance and after about 3 strides at the canter I fell off to the left side and she galloped off to the right and headed straight for the boys.  The result?  A cut on my nose from my glasses getting hit by my helmet and a swollen bruised leg.  It’s still swollen as I write but we were able to compete in the Show and I was very pleased with our performance.  I did have X-Rays because the Urgent Care doctor thought I might have had a fracture.  I did not but have to go back for an ultra sound if the swelling doesn’t go down by next week.  I have to down play the injury so Joe doesn’t worry too much!Wink  He says my leg looks like I was in a terrible car crash.  It was just a horse crash.  Lesson learned?  Arrow needs to be removed before I train in the XC field.

I’m happy with the results of Arrow’s treatment so far.  I realized yesterday I have not seen him do his quirky head toss in a few weeks.  The Vet had suggested this was him trying to find comfort from pain when I brought it up at the beginning of all of this.  He had done this since I brought him home.  This may be a positive sign.  I do plan on attempting my 1st ride on him this month.  Definitely not until Chloe has ridden him and gives me the ok.  In the meantime I continue to ride horses like Gwendolyn, Dutchess and Jones.  This is so beneficial to me as each horse is very different to ride.

I don’t like ending on a ‘debby downer’ note but unfortunately we lost a horse at Kingsway the other day to Colic.SadBroken
 heart  It affects everyone.  My heart goes out to his owner who is so dedicated to her horses.  She is out there everyday caring for them.  Rest in Peace Reed and know your Mama Loved Loved Loved You!!

Jan. 27, 2018

My Dear Beautiful Lake, 

You would have been 14 today.  There is hardly a day that goes by I don’t think of you.  Your winner’s circle portrait is one of the 1st things I see when I come out of my room in the morning.  You proved to me that dreams can come true!  I still have to pinch myself to remember that I owned such a magnificent horse as you! Shocked

My birth mother told me “some people just have to get born!”  I took that to heart and extended that to animals.  Many believe there are people and animals that sometimes come into our lives for a short time but have a significant impact.  You had a significant impact in my life.  I learned so much from you in the short 9 months we were together. You made me even more horse crazy!!  Can you believe I actually did an Eventing show?  We could have done that! Thumbs up  Did you know one of your 1st jockeys, Victor Espinoza, won the Triple Crown on a horse named American Pharaoh?  You were probably one of his favorites. Wink 

You were gracious, kind, forgiving and patient.  You needed to be patient.  You knew you were dealing with a newbie when we met. {#smileys123.tonqueout}  Your eyes said so much.  Joe said the day we lost you was one of the worst days of life.  He said he will never get my scream out of his head when I found out you were gone.  It was one of the worst days of my life too.  I learned that dreams can be shattered as quickly as they come true.Broken heart  I don’t tell you this to make you sad.  I would never trade those 9 months with you just to avoid my heartache.  I think happy thoughts when I think of you. Big Grin  I use what you taught me to help me with your brother Arrow. Thank You for being such a great teacher!  We will see each other again someday.  In the mean time, I hope you are grazing on endless fields of your favorite hay and grass, getting endless amounts of carrots and enjoying long peaceful naps in the sun.  Your best girlfriend Flirti says ‘Hi!’  I told her I was going to be writing you a letter.  Enjoy your Birthday!  I love you to the end of the universe and beyond!  The picture of you is one of my most favorites. Love  The artist painted it using different photos I had of you and Arrow.  It is how I imagined you would have watched over him.Heart

Jan. 4, 2018

I decided to get insurance for Arrow.  The $850 insurance policy was easier to swallow right now with being unemployed than a possible $10,000 Vet bill if something bad happened.  I wasn’t exactly prepared for what was to come next but the reality is setting in and I am positive about Arrow’s future.  For anyone who is reading this because they are thinking about getting a horse for the 1st time know that I did not take my advice about at least doubling whatever you estimate your expense to be.  For now I will say if I needed to use my insurance I was thinking in my head all would be covered except my $450 deductible.  After all, it was a $10,000 major medical policy.  Yes, I estimated $450.  Not the case and here is why I now know this.

Chloe talked to me about how Arrow was getting worse when training and anyone watching him would think he was just being as Ass.  His behavior was not matching his personality and she felt it was a reaction to pain.  She thought the pain was in the middle to lower part of the left side of his neck.  As much as she didn’t want to say it, she also suspected Kissing Spine.  This is where bones along the vertebrae rub together.  I was told horses with this condition feel low grade pain all of the time.  It can be the result of an injury to another area and can develop as the horse tries to compensate for that pain.  Unfortunately the only way to rule out problems at this point was through a bone scan.  Keep your calculators on!!!  A bone scan costs $2000.  I learned that my policy will cover up to $2000 for diagnostics.  The results of the bone scan required additional X-Rays to be done. I used up my $2000 limit so the additional X-Rays will not be covered.  I also needed to have a pre-exam to get the referral for the bone scan.  That was $150 along with an additional $300 for his dental and sheath cleaning.  It is questionable whether the $150 is covered.  The rest is not for sure but it was an additional expense on top of all of this.  Arrow’s teeth were pretty bad when we got him so it has taken a long time to get them back to normal.  I also learned that my insurance would cover up to $2000 for treatment and that most injections were NOT covered.  Arrow’s scan confirmed what Chloe had thought and found an additional problem.  He has active arthritis in his neck and Kissing Spine.  He also has active arthritis in his Sacroiliac joint which is very important when a horse jumps, gallops, turns and other movements.  Chloe had pretty much nailed it with his diagnosis before the scan.  The active arthritis and the amount of hot spots most likely are a result of an injury in the past.  It could have been an injury during his racing career or a trailer accident. Chloe also mentioned that since he was in a pasture with only Cows before he was rescued, he could have gotten his head caught in the feeders.  They are not designed for horses.  All are a possibility but we will never know.Sad

If I were an Eventer this would have been a devastating diagnosis and probably the moment I began thinking about looking for another horse.  The future expenses for his treatment would not be worth it because Arrow will never be able to do that.  His future would be dim.Broken heart  

Luckily, this unemployed girl has credit cards and is absolutely IN LOVE with her Horse!HeartHeart  I don’t want anyone thinking I feel like I got a Lemon.  He is a rescue, you get what you get.  What are you suppose to do if life gives you lemons?  Make lemonade!! That is what Arrow and I are going to do!  Even with this crappy diagnosis, I strongly believe there is a light at the end of this tunnel.  This light will just cost a little bit. Shocked  As of right now his prognosis is that he can be a light working trail horse.  For now he will be ridden at liberty which basically means he will decide what we do.  If he wants to trot, I’ll let him trot but as soon as he shows any resistance we will stop.  He also needs to be ridden on a loose rein so I will definitely need to work on using more leg and less rein as an aid.  With treatment, cantering may be a possibility in the future.  I mentioned that my insurance will cover up to $2000 in treatment.  I have not seen the itemized bill yet for that visit but I know it is $3870 from my credit card statement.  He had ultrasound-guided intra-articular injections of corticosteroids.  Chances are that they will not be covered but fingers crossed.  I’m guessing they were quite pricey.  He is also on muscle relaxers for 15 days.  His physical therapy will be lunging on a Pessoa System for 5 times a week for 30 days.  He is pictured in the Pessoa.  It will help him build up his back and use the correct muscles.  While trying to compensate for the pain in his neck he has most likely caused the condition in back and sacroiliac joint.  I was told it would be most ideal if his injury started in the neck then the back.  His recovery would have a better chance of success.  The Pessoa system should put him back in line and give some relief.  He will also have chiropractic, focal shockwave therapy and pulsed electromagnetic therapy which is what he has had in the past from Debra and she will do his future treatments when they start.  These are all ‘will have’ things and are not a part of the $3870 which is very close to the $4000 max on my insurance. Crying  In the end, my $450 out of pocket estimate could realistically reach $2000.  If he needs treatment indefinitely to keep him comfortable it will go far past that.  He will have the treatment no matter what.  Arrow is not going to be a rescue that needs to be rescued!!

I do want to send a HUGE shout out to Dr. Martinelli and Dr. Walker at California Equine Orthopedic and Dr. Sandler who will be following his care in the field!!  Arrow’s bone scan was done in a hospital setting.  He obviously had to be hauled there so that will be on my next boarding bill.  I’m guessing it will be between $75-$100 but could be more since it required 2 trips down to San Marcos, CA.  Are you starting to see where I failed myself in my initial estimate???Blush  This is why if my blog has even saved 1 person from ‘pocket book heartbreak’, it was worth it! I’m not looking for anyone to feel sorry for me and my predicament; I’m just telling it like it is!

I’m so blessed that I have Chloe as my trainer.  Without her, I don’t think Arrow would have been properly diagnosed and my poor boy would have continued to be in pain.  She is working with me on the Pessoa System to make sure I have it down before she turns me loose without her supervision.  I thought I had the ‘hooking it up’ part down but when I tried to do it myself, I couldn’t even get past untangling it. Wild  Once I got it on him with Chloe’s help, we had a good lunging session.  Right now he walks and trots in the round pen in both directions for a total of 15 minutes.  Arrow is going to have the best care I can provide for him.  That’s going to require me learning to do as much as I can myself.  This will not only help my finances, it will also make our bond as a team even stronger!

Arrow continues to get in everyone’s business who sits on the logs next to his pasture to watch lessons.  He rubs his muzzle all over their head and necks.  He is starting to get a reputation around Kingsway as being a Very friendly horse.  With humans that is.  Horses are another matter!  There he has the reputation of being a jerk.  He does make it difficult for other owners to get their horses if he is with them.  He is a big attention hog! {#smileys123.tonqueout} 

I hope everyone had a Fabulous Holiday and that 2018 is a great year for all!!Thumbs up