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Jul. 10, 2019

July 11th is the 4 year anniversary of the day I lost my beautiful Lake. 💔  I couldn’t have asked for a more perfect 1st horse.  I miss her dearly but am comforted when I think of how our lives as we knew it my household changed.  Horses will do that!🤪  My growth as a horse owner and rider from the day I brought her home to today amaze me when I think about it! 

My sweet Lake…..You raced, you were a mama, you were rescued from slaughter and I had the privilege of having you as a member of my family and a teacher that gave me what I needed to continue down this path I am following.  I believe you led me to another who was in desperate need of a safe landing from a horrible rescue because he was not the great prospect they hoped he would be and found him possibly not adoptable. Ready to be put down with a bullet. Thank you for everything you gave!!  I believe you are watching over Arrow and I and continue to guide us through this journey!  The pic is of Lake and Arrow. ❤

Apr. 27, 2019

Arrow is 12 years old!! My magical boy has been with me for almost 4 years!  I don’t know where time has gone!😲


I haven’t written in awhile.  Things have been pretty routine with a few set backs.  It would appear he is due for a Corticosteroid injection in his neck.  Chloe rode him a few weeks ago and he had issues in the arthritic area of his neck.  Dr. Huth wanted to see if acupuncture would work before doing the injection.  When Chloe gets back from the Horse Show I am going to schedule a ride for a reevaluation.  If he still has issues I will do the injection. For those of you keeping track of the $$ amount, that is close to $600.  The acupuncture treatments are $75.  I’m hoping he keeps his shoes on!  It seems he loses one just before he is suppose to have a ride. 😉  The one and only good thing about that is I have learned to remove a shoe.  That is very important when their shoe is sprung and not off completely.  They could really hurt their hoof if they stepped on the nail of the shoe that partially came off.  His farrier put different shoes on him today that have clips.  Those are a whole new ball game when it comes to removal so he better keep these on.  He has sprung 2 and lost 2 in the past 2 months so I’m thinking he is stepping on his own shoe.  It’s always the fronts too.  The 1st time I removed it myself I was alone with him in his field. He wasn’t tied or anything and just stood there while I pried it off.  The 2nd time Kristen held him for safety but he was just as good. 👍

I have learned that Arrow is an enforcer and protector when it comes to his small herd!😠  No one messes with them!  I believe it was last month that a horse that was once boarded with Nike and Annie a few years ago, was put in their field after the owner told Terry her horse knew them and was boarded with them before. This seemed like a good place for her horse to live.  What the owner failed to disclose was that her horse beat the crap out of Nike every time he tried to get close to Annie.  Annie is truly his security blanket so this was very stressful for him as the horse continued to do the same as it had years ago.  The new horse took a huge bite out of Nike’s back and wouldn’t let him near Annie.  Arrow was out of the field at this time getting new shoes. ($185 every 6 weeks)  I wasn’t there but heard from Kristen, that when Arrow was released back into the field he was completely on the opposite side from where this was going on.  She said his Stallion came out and he got really big with an “oh, hell no!” look on his face and he tore across the field and chased the horse away from them.  I believe at one point he ran it through the electric fence. The new horse was permanently removed about an hour later and Arrow continued to be the barrier between him and Annie and Nike until that happened.  I was proud of Arrow for standing up for his friends.  It also showed me that he understood the relationship between Annie and Nike.  I think that is pretty remarkable.❤


While the picture doesn’t show all the detail, Khloee, a new co-worker, made this Beautiful nose band for Arrow’s halter!! I was floored when I saw it!  It is definitely a keepsake I will always cherish!  Check out Denny Custom Leather on FB to see more.


Kristen and I did have a representative from Hygain feed come out to look at our horses and evaluate their needs.  We put them on a grain routine that was balanced and gave them everything they needed.  Some of Arrow’s behavior showed he was missing some minerals and salt he needed and found my current grain lacked any of it.  This explained his excessive licking of his salt block and dirt eating.  She said it showed Arrow knew he was lacking something.  This explains his gut being filled with enough sand to build a sand castle a few years ago.  The monthly psyllium I give him assists with removing the sand but now he may not have as much he because he will stop doing that.  I’m excited to see the results in a month or so!  She said he looked great and may even look better after a few cycles of the new grain.  Will definitely update on that!


Arrow continues to get PEMF therapy monthly and acupuncture and chiropractic as needed.  He had an Osphos shot ($300) and dental ($150) recently. He also gets a strict regimen of Love from me!❤💋


There have been lots of changes around Kingsway recently and currently.  Chloe’s trainer, Tamie Smith (one of the top Eventer’s in the U.S.) is taking up residence (if that is even correct to say) at Kingsway.  She has top riders from around the world come and do clinics.  I’m excited as Arrow’s field is across from the arenas and cross country field so I’ll get to see some of this when tending to the herd.🤪  We are also moving to the middle barn that is closer to Arrow’s field and even closer is a new tack room, wash rack and cross ties so super convenient!  His field was the furthest you could be away from the barn before.  This saves me time walking him all of the way up!


Finally I have to talk about the newest member of the herd even though she doesn’t reside in the field yet.  There is a chance she may not.  It depends on many factors.  Her name is Andromache ‘Drew’ and she is a 6 year old OTTB.  Kristen got her last month and she is a shining star!! She is in full training with Chloe and eating well so Kristen doesn’t want to disrupt her routine at this critical point.  A change to the field would definitely do that now.  If she does live it the field, she would be introduced very slowly and to Annie at 1st.  Arrow will probably be the most difficult but he does seem to do a little better with the ladies.😋


I’m determined to keep up with my blog and look forward to reporting all kinds of positives next month!!

Jan. 13, 2019

For those reading this who have followed this blog from the beginning know that Lake was adopted from Southern California Thoroughbred Rescue.  The adoption process was not an easy one as it shouldn’t be.  This is especially true for a new horse owner.  I was blessed to be allowed to adopt her.  While I had learned a lot in the short 10 months I had her, it wasn’t enough that I should have not been able to go to a different rescue and be approved within 1 day to adopt another OTTB.  That should have been a red flag.  Lesson here is always do a thorough research on any rescue you decide to adopt from.  Really take time to talk to volunteers working there, other adopters if possible and do a complete inspection of the facility.  I’m now at a point where I can share additional facts about Arrow’s adoption which shows the ugly side of some rescues. 😠  Please keep in mind that there are many good rescues like SCTR.  I would recommend them and would adopt from them again.  Quite a bit of what I am going to tell comes from anonymous but legitimate sources.


Arrow was a “Hi Caliber rescue”.  From the outside they looked like a fabulous rescue.  I contacted them to see if they had any OTTB’s  for adoption.  I explained what had happened to Lake and said I really wanted to get another OTTB in honor of her.  I could continue her story which is the story of many OTTB’s.  They replied immediately telling me about Arrow.  He was advertised as having Western and English riding experience and would be a great horse for many different disciplines.  It did not take Chloe long to figure out that he was pretty green from the track and had not really been ridden much since his racing days.  Race horses are ridden differently so it is important that they go through a re-training.  He had not.  It was not disclosed to me that he had xrays, chiropractic evaluation, lameness exam and steroid injections and was not cleared to ride.  The vets knew something was wrong but not sure what so they were still troubleshooting to find the cause, despite Michelle’s attempt to “ride him out of it” for 40 minutes in the round pen and proclaim “he was a fun ride”. (this was witnessed)  Needless to say he was dead lame the next morning and the rescue knew he would be hard to adopt out.  Even as a pasture pet Arrow is still going to require on going care to keep him comfortable.  I learned from a few different sources that he was very close to being euthanized (a bullet and a decision by the rescue not a vet). L  Hi Caliber was taking it upon themselves to euthanize horses that had high expenses for care and were more challenging to adopt out.  Arrow was one of those horses.  At the time of his adoption I did not know that he had a very loving foster family and a foster mom, Shelley, who was starting to see that things were not quite right at the rescue.  She had taken on his Vet expenses.  Most likely to keep him alive until she was able to adopt him or he found a forever home who would fully understand his challenges.  She had wanted to make her home his forever home.  Her horses were Arrow’s friends and she vowed to be his safety net if he wasn’t able to find a forever family outside of her own. She has not said this but I firmly believe that Hi Caliber did not like the fact that Shelley was raising some questions about their practices (as were many others) and adopted him out while she was on vacation.  They were very eager to have me take him home a few days before she was going to return.  Shelley was devastated and heartbroken when she came home to find he was gone and no one would tell her where he went.💔  I cry as I write this because I know how I would feel if Arrow just disappeared.  She begged to have legal ownership if he was ever returned to Hi Caliber vowing complete financial support instead of facing a bullet. She vowed to spend the rest of her life trying to find him.  Impossible task?  Seemed to be but here is where fate plays its role.  Shelley’s husband Scott use to work with my ex sister-in-law Stacie.  We are both Facebook friends with her.  I had posted my announcement about Arrow being the latest addition to our family.  My FB page is public so Scott had seen the post because Stacie had ‘liked’ it.  He had found Arrow!  He contacted Stacie to see if it was ok to reach out to me.  Stacie told me about their role in Arrow’s life. Turned out to be a huge role!!  I had signed a contract with Hi Caliber stating that if I couldn’t keep Arrow he would go back to the rescue.  Michelle at Hi Caliber had told me there was someone who wanted him who she was not going to let adopt (I’m assuming that was Shelley) and that she was thinking there were things wrong with him when that wasn’t true.  Turns out it was true.  At this point, Hi Caliber seemed like a great rescue.  After corresponding with Scott, they came to visit Arrow.  I knew immediately he would have been perfectly fine with them and really did have a safe landing with them.  They clearly loved him and cared for him.  I was torn.  I fell in love with him but knew he also had a home.  I didn’t have a way to give him back to them. He had to go back to Hi Caliber and if that happened, he wouldn’t have gone to them.  I felt terrible.  Fortunately they gave me their blessing to keep him.  They knew more than I did that back to Hi Caliber could never be an option.  They didn’t know me though so I’m sure they were still worried about his future.  I encourage those reading to google Hi Caliber yourself so you can read the articles written about them recently.  It’s pretty horrific. 😥  Arrow was rescued from a rescue.  His forever home should have been with Scott and Shelley.  We have agreed that this ended up being the best situation for him looking back. If he had gone to anyone else Shelley may still be looking for him today.  They are welcome to visit him any time they want and should anything happen to me Arrow will go to live with them.  This gives me great peace of mind!  Had they not intervened in his care, I don’t believe Arrow would have seen his 10th birthday.  I plan on spending many more with him! 🤪


I rode Arrow a few times over the last few weeks after he was off for about 6 weeks.  He managed to puncture his knee somehow.  Still do not know the source.  Dr. Huth didn’t rule out a fracture.  He had quite a bit of swelling and a nice size hole.  Thankfully the swelling decreased over the next few days and the hole closed after about 4 weeks.  It couldn’t be stitched because of the location.  What I discovered about him is it really is amazing how well he rides after having long periods of time off.  He hasn’t had tons of training since his racing days because of his issues so this is really quite remarkable!  Our last ride was perfect. J  He was very relaxed.  He is still getting his massages, acupuncture and chiropractic.  This is something that will be life long for him.  Arrow is physically broken but has a huge heart and a very sound mind!  He continues to surprise, amaze and inspire me every day!!!  To this day I will still just watch him in the pasture and cannot believe he is my horse!!❤❤❤


Oct. 25, 2018

I’m not sure what happened but I missed posting last month. 👎 I think it is because I always had my evenings free and that was when I would sit down and write.  Now I work a lot at night so my free nights are spent catching up with my family.  I can go 4 whole days in a row without seeing much of Joe or Ty.  I actually found a job online to groom horses that paid more than I am making now but it was 40 miles away so it really didn’t make much sense.  It would be nice if something like that opened in Temecula.🤪


September and October brought on many Facebook memories of Lake from 4 years ago.  The end of September was the beginning of the adoption process which was finalized on October 22nd which just happens to be one of my dearest friend’s birthdays.  Happy Birthday Miriam!  She was also Lake’s 1st visitor!  My 10 year wedding anniversary was in September and my husband gave me a new halter for Arrow which was a beautiful purple.  At first I had mixed feelings about it because while it looks really nice on him, it was Lake’s color.  I had retired it and switched to blue for Row Row.  I compromised with myself and decided he can wear it in honor of her.  It’s a reminder that Lake led to Arrow. 💋

I’m very pleased with Arrow’s progress.  At her last visit, Arrow’s vet who does his chiropractic, said he was the most comfortable she has ever seen him in the 3 years of working with him and that it made her happy I didn’t give up on him. At that point he had his 3rd acupuncture treatment.  She also gave him an Osphos injection ($400) that should last for 6 months.  I’m really not sure how much more can be done that would make a huge difference as far as improvement from where he is at now.  There seems to be a fine line between building up his muscles to support his kissing spine and causing additional pain elsewhere.  Since he is feeling good, Dr. Stokes recommended continuing on a maintenance plan to keep him from going backwards and getting to a point where quality of life is no longer good.  I can’t even think about that!  The combination of Deborah’s PEMF, acupuncture and Chiropractic ($240 for all 3 when done in the same month) seems to be the plan.👍

I thought I was not going to be able to ride Arrow in my dressage saddle but now I have a fabulous gel pad I use with it and so far it seems to be good.  It turns out my western saddle is not for him and I will not put it on him again.  Even with the new therapeutic pad it still hurts his withers.  I got a 5 point breast collar from Chloe to keep the saddle from sliding so I think I’m pretty solid as far as equipment goes.

Arrow loves his field and friends!! He has been there about 3 months and is content as a bug in a rug.  I did find that he is an escape artist and got out recently. 😮  I had left the gate unlocked after giving him, Annie and Nike their grain.  The gate does not just open as it drags on the ground close to where it opens so he somehow managed to pull it open.  Luckily Annie and Nike had the smarts to know it probably was not a good idea to go very far and were found right outside the field.  Not Arrow!!! He made his way all the way up through Kingsway to the main driveway and out to the road.  It was evening.  I certainly dodged a bullet there.  He could have been hit by a car and killed or worse, if someone hit him, they could have died.  Arrow could have disappeared never to be seen again. The horrible possibilities are endless. Thankfully someone had reported a loose horse!  He managed to make his way back to Kingsway and into the grain barn.  He was found before he ate himself to death.  Poor Linda had already settled in for the night and was in jammies when she got the call.  She was NOT happy!!😠  Lesson learned……triple check the gate!!!!

I’ve mentioned in the past that I have a plan for Arrow should something happen to me.  I recently found out that his new family may be moving to Montana in the very near future.  I think he would love it!  I had accidentally bought a blanket that is more suited for weather like that in the winter than here.  It has never been needed.  I’ve decided to keep it “just in case”.

My riding plans for Arrow is once a week at the walk for about 30 minutes.  I schedule rides with Chloe here and there so she can evaluate where he is at and to make sure he is sound enough to be ridden.  The pic is us a few weeks ago.  We had such a relaxing ride that day. 🙂 He likes to listen to the Carpenters and Barry Manilow or at least puts up with it!😋

Aug. 28, 2018

Last time I wrote Arrow had been moved to a pasture with 4 other geldings.  He never really bonded with any of the horses.  He spent a lot of his time standing under a tree alone.  He had his visit with the vet in July and it was recommended he lose 50 lbs.  He was moved to a pen because the geldings were on Alfalfa and Arrow would have continued to gain weight.  The pen didn’t work out either.  He “played’ pretty hard with his neighbors, fence rails were kicked down quite a bit and after a few weeks Arrow looked like he had been though a battle.  He was missing quite a bit of hair.  Also, he was sore in his neck at his visit so I felt like the light at the end of my tunnel was getting a little dim. 🤔  

When I returned from my trip to Minnesota my friend Kristen graciously offered to try Arrow in the pasture with her horses Annie and Nike.  I believe it is the only pasture with a mixture.  Normally the mares and geldings are kept separated.  Both horses wear fly masks so I did worry about a daily removal by Arrow.  I also worried that he may bite them like crazy and possibly kick.  He has shoes on his back hooves and those kicks are much more severe than a kick by a shoeless horse.  What Kristen was offering was a big deal.  For the 1st few days he was turned out with them for several hours and things went very well.  He got to stay the night after the 3rd day and I am happy to say he has been there ever since!!  He is definitely a happy horse!🤪  The day after his 1st overnight he actually walked away from me when I tried to take him out to groom him.  He called out to Nike and Annie the whole way up to the barn and as we walked further away from the pasture his eye had a worried wrinkle.😥 He also kept turning around to look in their direction.  It was obvious to me that he really liked his new friends and unlimited amounts of shade. 😀  When I took him back he actually broke into a trot as we got closer to the gate to go back and he ran off to be with his ‘herd’ as soon as I removed his halter.  He was greeted with squeals and bucks by Nike and the two of them looked like excited 4 year olds!  My heart was full!  His move is now permanent and there have been no fly mask tragedies or serious wounds.  Arrow’s hair has grown back nicely and all is good.👍

I also decided to try acupuncture.  Dr. Huth has done 3 treatments and he has responded very favorably!  Chloe rode him at the trot and he looked the most comfortable I’ve seen him since I brought him home 3 years ago.  He has 1 more treatment in a few weeks and then it will be as needed.  I’m also considering CBD oil.  I’ve heard that it does wonders for horses with arthritis and there are no harmful side effects.  I’m in the research process now and have been in contact with a company based in San Diego that already offers it for Dogs but wants to expand to horses if they find a need.  They are interested in working with Arrow and want to speak to both of my Vets to get their feedback.  I would be fine with him being a test subject and perhaps it would help to keep my costs down.  Arrow has definitely been a project!  So worth it!!!

I’ve ordered a new therapeutic western saddle pad and a breast plate to help keep his saddle from sliding on his back.  I’m also still working on finding someone who can fit his saddle to him.  It seems to be harder than an English saddle and most saddle fitters I have asked only do English. 😠 I’ve ridden Arrow myself a few times in the past 3 weeks and the rides have gone well.  It does seem that 30 minutes is his max.  My saddle pad just arrived as I wrote my last sentence so I’m excited to try it out after I show it to Chloe and get the ok.

For those reading this to keep track of the expenses of horse ownership, my expenses since January 1st have been just over $10,000 out of pocket.  OUCH!!!  I didn’t realize until I just added it up.  That includes his board, medical expenses and treatments, new tack, shoes, supplies such as fly masks, fly spray, grooming things, training for Arrow and lessons for me.  My lessons are quite a bit more than if I had them on Arrow because I lease a horse and that is $75 each lesson.  There is a great advantage to this as I have the opportunity to ride many different horses.  This is great to improve my riding skills.  The downside is obviously the additional expense and it is harder for me to build a solid relationship with a horse and I think it makes competing a little more challenging.  The horse I have been able to get the closest to is Gwendolyn.  I feel a lot more confident when I ride her than any other horse including Arrow.  I also have to be careful about getting too close to her as she is not my horse.  I have attachment issues!! 😋

I saw a bumper sticker the other day that said ‘my horse poops my paycheck’.  Arrow is pooping more than I am putting in.😮  Unfortunately at my new job I make in 1 month what I made in 1 week at DFS.  If I had done the same figuring as I did before I adopted Lake and had my current job, the reality is I would not have adopted her. It doesn’t pencil out on paper.  At the moment I just don’t look at my credit card statements.  If my $10,000 would have been spent on clothes for me and treasures for my house I would be overwhelmed but since it has been spent on my MAGICAL pony my attitude is, it will all be fine!  Arrow has given me so much he deserves to have the best life I can possibly provide for him.  I truly believe there is a reason he is my horse and over time I know I will understand what that is.  All I know, is we belong together. ❤❤❤

(the pic is of him with his herd Nike and Annie)